Questions?

Our Parties are run irregularly. Due to the difficulty of acquiring appropriate venues. How ever once you have applied and been accepted you will be personally invited to our parties.  

No. Men who are unaccompanied by a genuine partner too easily adopt a predatory attitude that spoils the vibe for everyone else. Men with professional escorts or teaming up with a female mate to find out what it’s like are not acceptable either.

Yes. Its often the case that females search out a sexual experience with other women and this is the driver behind many couples who start swinging.

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You must look after your own belongings. We will have a coat check area but only for coats. We charge a couple of dollars for this.

If things get intimate, its a great idea to put your clothes together in a neat pile and remember where you left them.

Yes, we accept bi-men (with their female partners) but only on condition that they don’t engage in gay male activity at our parties. Couples who wish to  engage in this way are free to leave together and even come back together afterwards if their home or hotel is close enough.

 The convention of including bisexual female activity but not bisexual male activity is quite universal in swinging clubs in every country of the world. It’s this way, because that’s what swingers everywhere – of both sexes – want.

This is not a moral judgement but a utilitarian one. There are, after all, plenty of other leisure options for couples who want these experiences.

Yes, We want you to have fun and enjoy the DJ, this takes the pressure of the sex and gives everyone an opportunity to relax into things. 

Yes, just cover it with a condom if using it in different women.

Yes, but please bring your own if you prefer something specific. We only supply regular in size.

Not if you don't feel comfortable. We encourage you to get involved as much as you feel comfortable, but its natural to be a bit cautious and perhaps just watch and play with each other, perhaps at the next party you'll feel more comfortable and confident. 

If your a Male & Female couple the Female can stay but the Male must leave with his partner that he arrived with. This is to maintain the right balance of Male's and Female's all night long.

The point of having a selection panel and vetting each applicant by photos and identification helps us to create a night with diverse partygoers. An exciting night should have a great mix of couples and single females from different backgrounds. The only commonalty between people is that they needs to be attractive and from a professional or entrepreneurial  background . We're also looking at people that have a great level of pride in their appearance (and hygiene!). All these factors make for a great night for everyone involved. 

We ask that everyone arrives freshly showered for everyone's benefit! We encourage people to come looking their best. If that for you means a full back, crack and sack wax or a Brazilian that's great. But if you prefer a more natural look, that's fine too. The main point to accentuate is cleanliness and a sense of pride in your own appearance is of upmost importance.

No, there is not enough space at the venues to have private areas. This also defeats the purpose of attending one of our parties. We foster an inclusive environment and having closed doors or private areas would go against this intention.

If you meet another couple and would like to have some privacy with them, you can leave the party and take your foursome to another venue.

It is against our rules to have sex in the toilets, after all you can have sex anywhere else in the venue. By having sex in the toilets. this forces people to queue to actually use the toilet.

No we are not a restaurant or cocktail party. We suggest that you have a nice meal somewhere locally before the party.